What I'm Working On (Besides Survival)
The small steps I'm taking to rebuild when everything seems like a mess
I suppose it's no secret that I'm really struggling in 2025 to get where I need and want to be.
I'm struggling to juggle my health (mostly disease management) with making a living and being a present single parent.
I'm struggling with finances—to cover our basic bills and my ever-growing list of medical expenses.
I'm struggling to feel good about myself as a writer, a person, or a parent. Too often, I feel like I've lost my voice—or even lost my whole self—in the muck of just trying to get by. It's hard to feel like I have anything valuable to say anymore when it feels like it's been so long since I’ve really hit my stride in anything.
That said, the truth is that I really am trying to do more than survive and get past all of the hurdles. I figured it's maybe time to tell you about some of the small steps I'm working on.
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